Second miscarriage in a row

We are looking for Baby number 2... and it’s been hard. We got pregnant in March but that resulted in a miscarriage at 5 weeks and my body didn’t process until the 10 week, so I had to get done a D&C.; After a break and the ok from the doctor we tried again and got pregnant this July but today I started spotting bright red.

We have a 2.5 yo and we are so grateful for her ... I’m not sure what’s going on or if I’m doing something wrong

I’m just so devastated today I’m trying to be strong brave and positive but I felt things changed during the week and I was so sad already

Everybody is having babies and I feel I’m that one girl that just can’t

I wonder if carrying lifting etc my toddler had anything to do with my losses other than my age (my mom thinks so)