Anyways that was one problem. The other is that he rarely takes us out and when he does he takes us to his brother in laws place just so he can drink, I always say to him to drive me and the kids home before he gets drunk (which he does, takes us home) BUT HE ONLY DROPS US OFF AND GOES BACK TO DRINK. He prefers to drink than to be with his family, its breaks me that he does that. Since mondays have become his drinking days he takes tuesdays off also just to sleep and watch tv all day, I get so stressed because I need help around the house, but he never offers it. I litteraly cried in the shower last night of how Im just sick of it all!! IM LITERALLY LIKE THAT😞👇