You can take the free quiz on putacupinit and they will tell you which one would be the best for you. You could have the wrong size everyone is different Hope you have better luck sorry I could not be of more help

It shouldn't hurt at all. If it hurts it may be too big. Even though you had a baby you may still need the smaller one. Try a smaller one and see how it feels.

The size shouldn’t actually be an issue, as your vaginal walls are flexible and should relax and adapt. I noticed that when the angle or suction is wrong, it hurts or pokes. When it’s in correctly, I don’t feel it and it doesn’t leak. You might have to try moving it around/angling it differently.

Is it sticking out after it is inserted? You should not feel it if it is inserted correctly. Most likely they it is too long.

Hi hun! So the Lily Cup Compact is some what infamous due to the pain its causing people! So while the cup is both small and soft, the shape tends to make it very uncomfortable. As for the Diva Cup, it sounds as though you have a lower cervix (from other replies youve made). Make sure to trim down the stems of your cups, otherwise they will poke and hurt you. The Diva Cup is also a firmer cup, which isnt ideal for everyone. I would suggest finding a shorter and softer cup! A good one i was thinking of that a lot of people with low cervixes or issues with pain when using cups love would be the Fun Cup. Theres no stem to trim and its soft yet easy to use :).

If the stem is what bother you both of those cups have similar stems