Stressing over this!!!

Okay hi everyone. I’m in a big situation with my boyfriend and it’s stressing us out. We don’t know what to do. We’re in a long distance relationship and his school is an early college school and he suggested I should go with him because it could really help with my future. We thought of a whole plan and today I told my mother about it and she agreed and wanted to talk his mother. My mother talked to his mother and things didn’t go as we wanted. She said it would be a lot of pressure on her and my boyfriend convinced her to think about it and now he feels bad about it. I don’t know what to do because I really want to go but I don’t want his mother to feel any type of way. What should I do? Please I need an answer because school will start soon!