Is it okay if....

...My boyfriend and I are long distance and he won't Skype with me? 90% of our communication is through Kik, and we can send videos but only 14 seconds at a time. Even getting him to answer the phone is hard. We have Skyped twice and he uses excuses for why he can't ("I just don't like to" is the main one). I sent him an iPod specifically for face time but he won't use that either. Am I being too demanding and not understanding or is video chatting something realistic that LDR couples should really do to maintain a relationship?