Is it normal to be high risk and not have a scan till over 12 weeks, I’m currently 11 weeks and not one medical person has checked me over, also this would be my 3rd pregnancy but first baby and people are saying I’m massive which is really upsetting for me as I have struggled with my weight for years until the beginning of this year when I lost half my weight and felt really confident, now people are saying this it’s now making me doubt if it is baby or just fat and my confidence levels have took a dive yet again 😭