I'm going to try to keep this short and sweet but it's probably gonna be long....so bear with me........

I'm just over 13 weeks pregnant. I'm having issues with my ob/gyn provider. One of the problems is I've never met her. I saw a physicians assistant at my 8 week appointment and at my 12 week appointment I saw a nurse and the nurse practitioner. So, my initial issue is that I haven't seen the doctor yet an there's no guarantee when I will see her or if she will deliver. Problem number 2 is the last time I went...which was last week, the nurse practitioner had asked how I was. I told her I was fine but I was having minor spasms. I then had asked her about the little cysts I had on my ovaries that the ultrasound tech found in my.first appointment. She said. "Oh right. You had a mass on your ovary" I said....wait what mass? She said. We will watch it. I said...the perinatal tech, who I had just seen the day before, didn't say anything about the cysts growing. She said. We will watch. I said . You just told me there's a mass in my ovary! Then as I'm walking out the door she said, "oh and your pap was abnormal but it's negative for hpv" I said. Uhm. What? She said. All we can do is repeat the pap. And then she walked out of the room.

Now. This was a few days ago. And I think I was kinda in shock when she said these things but I was mad with how callous she was with the information.....I also am not even sure if I was the patient she was supposed to see because when perinatal looked at my ovaries they said it looked fine and she said there was a mass on one. So I'm doubly mad because I'm not even sure she had my information right.

Am I wrong for considering switching? I feel kinda lost as this is my first pregnancy and I really don't know if this is normal behavior or if this practice is just a little odd.