I'm staying quiet, I'm not replying or even letting him know I'm even acknowledging his attempts to get my attention. I've found out that he updated his profile to "in a relationship" but there has been no trace of this so called girl. I am trying to move on, I'm talking to other people and I've downloaded tinder. Which he is on also, if he's on there... there's no way he would be in a relationship. So I get a text saying;