Background: We've been ttc since September 2016. We have had 2 losses. The first at 12 weeks in March 2017 and the second at almost 12 weeks in January 2018. Both timed I started to naturally miscarry but had D&Cs both times.

Problem: I want to start actively trying again. I dont want to wait any longer. Ive brought it up to my husband and he mentioned waiting a year. I dont want to wait that long. I dont know how to bring it up again. The subject is very sensitive and I just dont know how to tell him I dont want to wait and I want to try again. Ive made comments here and there but not a full convo. In July he stopped pulling out so I thought he was ready again but the last few times, he has pulled out. I got the courage to ask him why he was pulling out again and he stayed quiet for a bit. So I asked him again and he said that he doesnt want to go through another loss. We havent had sex since. I just dont know how to get us both on the same page. It is such a sensitive subject and I am scared his response will discourage me. He has made me cry before even though it wasnt his intention.. I know it was all me.. I didnt like his answer and it brought tears to my eyes. It is important to me that he wants to try as well. Any advise?