So it has been over 500 days since I've had, well you know ... and I met a guy online and we instantly connected and hit it off. I've NEVER had a one night stand but a few drinks and hours of conversation later I slipped up. It was great but … I'm not the one night stand type. When I asked if he was looking for a relationship he said he needs to get his life in order and he won't be ready for a relationship for 3-6 months …. I do too (am in the process of losing weight and obtaining my education) but I still don't want that to stop me from getting to know new people. You think he's gone or is there hope that something may come of this!? Help!!