my dream is to travel and i been with my boyfriend for a year and almost half now. every time we go on trips i have to plan it or decide where and find the hotel online and etc. We decided to go to california and he said when he got off work he’d help me as I been looking since 12 in the afternoon for a trip we decided on. He gets off and doesn’t help. he tells me “i would’ve been done by now you did this all day” so i asked him to help again and he shows no interest in it. It’s like he doesn’t want to do anything. So i’m asking if you go away with your significant other.... do they help you plan some is it or is it fully all on you? i’m not even referring to money. if i say he’s not helping he says i’m mean etc... i just wanna say screw it all. he even saw me getting stressed and upset not finding a hotel in our range and by the airport... it’s like i’m dating myself.