Anal with no Lube??

Question

Okay so my hubby and I have tried anal sex before, and I really liked it but it kinda hurt really bad too. I've tried telling him to use lube and he just won't no matter what. I told him I need it to help getting him inside but he just says lube is nasty. I really want to try anal again but how do I enjoy it if it hurts and there's no lube??

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You have to be firm with him. No lube, no anal. It's actually kind of dangerous to use no lube at all, though you can get away with just saliva. Ask him to let you stick 2-3 fingers up his bum with no lube, guarantee he won't go for that either.

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I would say "you want to stick it in my butthole, and the lube is what you consider nasty... Really" now I'm not a fan of anal but my husband is a huge fan so I will do it. Lube is a must. No lube, no anal. No if ands or buts.

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Ima tell you what, if my girlfriend told me that I wasn't gonna get to do anal if I didn't use lube, I'd be at the nearest walgreens within minutes! But on a serious note lube should always be used because it can cause it to stretch and tear if it isn't inserted correctly and then you will end up having more problems, and possibly not be able to do it again:/

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Not enough lubrication CAN do damage! Why don't you try sticking a finger in his butt with no lube and I bet he'd change his tune.

It also feels a lot better for both people when it's really slippery. You could also use your vaginal juices as lube but he has to make sure you're turned on and wet enough.

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That's selfish of him

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Stick your finger up his no lube butt he'll get the message

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I would never have anal with out lube there crazy!!

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Have him cum on you then stick it in works just as good as lube

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You shouldn't need to convince him. Tell him straight. If you shoved something up him lube-free he'd freak!! Tell him he can really injure you without it and is hurting you. It'll feel better for both of you, tell him to get a grip

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Use Vaseline, I know it's not lube but it is a thicker substance and feels amazing. Don't give him anal if it hurts you

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