Am i being overly extreme?

I told my mom and sister that am pregnant. I haven't told my father yet but, I was thinking that I should tell him with my boyfriend to ensure that he's serious about it. But, He's against it thinking it's a "family" thing that I should only tell him and have my bf come later that day.. am I being extreme for wanting my bf to be there break the news to my dad?

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