UPSET W MY FIANCÉ 😒

S 🌻 • Mother of one, engaged to my bestie of 10 years 💕

So ladies I need you to tell me if I’m being crazy or not.

My fiancé and I are expecting our first baby, and I’ve been having an awful pregnancy. I’m always in hospital, and when I’m home I’m always in pain. My fiancé works all week mon-for, and on weekends goes out with his friends. I have no problem with this, as he always did this before we were together, and if he works hard he should be able to enjoy himself.

My issue is he agreed to spend the weekend with me as I’ve just been let out of hospital a few days ago and am feeling crummy. He’s worked all week, and picked up an extra shift today which is a Saturday. Again, I had no problem with this as every little helps now we’re expecting.

HOWEVER, he won’t be home until 4:30 and has agreed to go out with his friends at 5:00, despite saying he’d spend the night with me. Last time they went out at 5pm, he didn’t get home until 11pm, by which point I was sleeping.

He doesn’t see an issue, as he can “see me “afterwards”. But our plan was to have some Chinese at home together, and just catch up with each other. We can’t do that at 11pm.

I don’t know if these hormones and feeling so down is making me crazy, or if I genuinely have something to be upset about.

Give me some reassurance or some criticism ladies!

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