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My So of about 3years just told me he wants to have anal sex with me. How many of you women enjoy it? I've heard it is quite painful 
And any tips for a first timer?

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Just feels like you having a poo! Its not pleasurable at all..... or maybe im not doing it right!????

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Relax so you're not so tense, lube or anal specific lube (lasts longer) and communicate!!! Tell each other what feels good and what doesn't. It's okay to stop. Work your way up and use a finger first or toy. You can stimulate other parts of your body to help with any discomfort. Try different positions too! Some women like being on top as it gives them more control. If you can or need to, go to the bathroom before.

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Go slow and lots of lube. Stop for the night if there's major discomfort. I'd personally recommend beginning with a few weeks of working up to our with smaller toys if you have access or small safe objects if not (nothing with moving it detachable parts, steralize before and after use, nothing with batteries that's not a you specifically made for insertion etc)

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Lol the first time I tried it with my ex, he was a lot smaller so it wasn’t too bad. My husband and I tried it and I almost punched him in the face and he barely got the tip in. I’m traumatized now and have not even entertained the idea since lol. Not to scare you. But yes. Start small maybe. Finger. Plug. Something. And be prepared for mild inflammation following, which may make it difficult to use the restroom for the first couple days after... you have to really want it, for it to be worth it in my opinion. But it can be really good.

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It is painful at first. It takes me and my husband forever to actually get it in. We go super slow and use lots of lube. It is painful at first then pleasurable.

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It's painful when it first goes in, but then feels really good. Make sure there's plenty of lube.

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I wouldn’t say I love it or hate it but I have tried it a few times with my ex. You need ALOT of lube for it to work & generally easier with a condom. It does hurt at the beginning but the key is for him to go slow.

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People have shared good advice already. I wanted to add that it never hurt for me at all, not even the first time. But we had played around with fingers first.

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I’d also recommend getting really turned on first and doing some research on the physiology of it. Anal sex can be dangerous due to fecal matter and the possibility of tearing, so do your research, get turned on, start slow and small, and stop if it hurts. 
I LOVE anal sex but only if I’m super turned on. Otherwise, pain, discomfort or poop feeling. I also like to stimulate my clit for added fun and relaxation.

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