Would you be worried if your SO suddenly started dressing nicer for work?

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He suddenly fixes his hair at least twice. Checks himself in the mirror a few times before leaving and then checks himself in the car. Puts on a lot of cologne, even on his dick and ass..suddenly he wants to wear the glasses I bought him as well, suddenly he wants his uniform ironed to perfection. Suddenly he comes home 30 mins to an hour late. Suddenly brushes teeth before work and takes in mints. Suddenly two new female names pop up when he talks. 
Idk what to do. I just iron and cook and pack his lunch and send him on his way with love, I can’t help but thing he has something for them. I ask but he starts crying and says nothing is going on, sometimes he gets angry and is mean. He suddenly prefers porn over me.
Its not even killing me at this point...I feel nothing but confusion in my head. 
What would you do?

Accepted Answer

Whenever he gets home, be sitting waiting in a chair, suddenly turn around and say, “I know everything. I know about her.” 
I can guarantee the look on his face will tell you what you need to know.

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He starts crying and says nothing is going on? That's a pretty dramatic reaction if nothing really was going on..

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The starting to cry thing doesn’t seem normal to me, that seems really suspicious.

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Am i the only one that’s concerned he’s putting chemicals on his dick? Lol ...that’s not good for anybody.

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Be worried. Those sudden changes are kind of new. There’s nothing wrong with trying to look your best and professional for work but the sudden names he mentioned and how he suddenly put extra effort in how good how looks and smells, especially the how you said he sprays down there, just seems questionable. You did your part in asking him what’s going on but the response of crying is an even MORE suspicious reaction. If there was nothing to hide, there’s nothing to be guilty for or to cry for... that’s a major red flag. The way he started to dismissed after you confronting him also confirms his attention is going elsewhere which isn’t fair. If he really isn’t guilty, he wouldn’t have cried and would try to reassure you that everything is good. You don’t really need proof to leave him. If the trust is gone, it’s kind of hard to make that remain a healthy relationship.

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Possibility he can be trying to impress someone?
Maybe there a promotion coming up?
Maybe he figure his hygienes was poor?
There can be many different reasons.
You can talk to him and ask him what’s up with the new change with a positive attitude and see.
Only you know him best!
I did go through this years ago to
Find out some lady , he had some interest told him he would look good certain way. 
Then he end up cheating months after that with her.

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talk to him about it. figure out what’s going on.

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He seems guilty of something not exactly sure what it is though . May not be cheating

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Hell yeah bc he's a plumber and electrician who the fuck is he looking good for? Lol for real though

Would you be worried if your SO suddenly started dressing nicer for work?

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