Fed up mommy

Am I the only one who is getting fed up with the lack of help or even compassion from her husband.

We have a 4 month old. We both work the same amount of hours. a full day from 7am till 4pm. Yet I’m the one waking up to do the night feed. I’m awake 2 hours before him just to get myself ready for work and baby for school. I leave the house before him to get her to school and be at work on time. I’m the one who fetches her after work.

I don’t mind doing a lot of it, but a lot of the time after work, I have to literally fight and motivate why I actually just need even just a 5 minute break... then I get told I’m being silly because he helped me a little on the weekend. Doesn’t he get I need help with her every day?

We both her parents. He literally huffs and puffs when I ask him to do something and really gives off an attitude to make me feel like I’m being a bad mom.

Some days go by where he never holds her....

Advice please....