Im 40 weeks and waiting soooo very impatiently for my little sunshine, but i feel like i CANNOT catch a break from... my GRANDMA😑 We expressed to our family that our wishes are for labor and delivery to be a very personal/private experience and would like this part of our journey to be between me and him. we told them we will not be texting people when we go in to avoid our phones being blown up for progress reports, but that after bonding and rest, we will text them all once we're ready for them to come up... well i guess my grandma feels a special entitlement (she practically raised me but rules still apply) and she had started texting me literally every single day, morning and night, multiple times. which got VERY annoying especially since we agreed we wouldnt be sharing progress with our families to avoid people trying to figure out when we go in (yes. my family is very psycho like that, theyve been driving by/texting us when a vehicle is gone etc) so i finally said "we will let you know when you need to know". and NOT EVEN A DAY GOES BY and shes texting me again and when i dont answer, starts texting my fiance and when he didnt answer started sending question marks like a highschool kid and when we STILL gave no response, started texting me AGAIN saying "heeeyyyy!!!!! lol" ... very funny let me tell ya.. NOT.. as kindly as possible i responded to her. We have had to warn our OB department that even though we have a private birth, be prepared for my family to spot our vehicles and try to force their way in because they just feel very entitled to these things. im not trying to be hateful but lord, can a poor, swollen, irritated girl just rest and wait patiently without having to answer the same texts from the same people 40 times a day when we made our wishes clear😭 i want to involve my family and i wish i could be open but as you can see, there are NO boundaries for people in our family and everyone just kind of does/says whatever they feel like regardless if its disrespectful towards you or not. its making me NOT want them involved at this point😅