My husband’s sisters both said they were coming to our sons baptism last Sunday and neither of them showed up or called us. Even my atheist grandpa showed up and we didn’t know if he was going to because of his beliefs. Both the sisters said they didn’t have gas money. We believe one of the sisters because she seems to really feel bad and she’s a single mom and she invited us over the next day(yesterday). The other one is engaged and her boyfriend just got hired on at her moms work and his check was a lot for overtime plus her check which was just under that plus child support which was the same as their checks put together and all of that together is the same that my husband gets paid so we know it’s hard to blow all of that. They just bought an expensive game which they played the whole time we were next door at the other sisters and I think that’s the reason they didn’t come to her nephews baptism. Her oldest is baptized so it wouldn’t have been religious reasons. She decided a week or two ago that she’s getting married the end of September so her boyfriend(who no one likes because they fight all the time and he does stupid crap like locks her out of their townhome with her kids. Plus he said he would never ever fight for this country)can adopt her youngest son since he doesn’t see his dad but the other two see their dads so he’s not adopting them. They’ve been together 18 months and got pregnant right away because she wanted a girl(she has three boys)which she got. She’s not saving the money for her wedding because her father is paying and she already got dress and rings. So I told my husband we should get a sitter for her wedding night since it seems like she doesn’t really want to be in her nephews life. She’s barely seen him since he’s been born. And she didn’t even visit us in the hospital but she visited her sister the year before. It was a Saturday and all they had was her moms wedding reception that afternoon/evening(wedding was a month before)so they had time. Do you think I am overreacting?