Unplanned!!! How do I tell him?

We’ve lightly talked about it a few months ago and heavily talked about babies when we first got together over a year ago. Right now we’re not official (we’ve been on and off but always “together”). I spend 80% of my time not at work over at his house and I’m quite close with his mom. We haven’t talked about getting back together officially (there’s things we need to work through and talk about before that happens).

It’s too early to test but I just checked my ovulation calendar and that’s the most recent day we had sex. Yesterday I felt slight pin pricks in my lower abdomen/uterine area and severe nausea. So I’m just trying to mentally prepare myself. I’m sure I’m just over thinking it, but how would you tell a partner you may be pregnant?! Especially if you’re not TTC.

I mean, I’d love to have a family with him but not quite yet. So I have mixed feelings about it. I’ve always wanted to tell my partner they’re going to be a father in a cute way, but I don’t think that would go over smoothly right now.