Venting to my community, moving forward...

Just needed to vent to my community hope you ladies not mind. Every breakup is a shitty feeling an the worst ones are the ones that we've been left for another woman. It does a lot to your self esteem, even though it shouldn't. We were together for a year, although there are longer relationships out there in sure for a longer duration of time it's still a shitty feeling. He texted me last night saying it's officially over an he's moved forward, mind you today is only day 5 of our breakup. It's the worst when it's the first actually relationship your gave yourself up to. I will say I've learned age is just a number, it doesn't matter if he's 29 or 23, is independent or dependent, all is the same shit. I want to know where all the good men are at that actually deserve a real woman's trust, commitment, and love ? Where do you lucky ladies that have your dream prince find your men? I want to move forward but I still feel so hung back, I have so many questions, and doubts...if any of you lovely ladies have experienced this, I want to know what your moves where and how it ended up for you.