How do I get him to slow down? My boyfriend works, alot! I don't mind that he does, he had a really good job and then was laid off. He was able to get another job, but it's not the same. Well now he has 2 jobs. After he's done with job 1 he goes straight to job 2. We don't live together, we live about 45mins away from each other, depending on traffic. Just trying to get him to take a time out briefly, to do the simplest things seem impossible. He went from working 12hrs to doubles, now he's working twice as much. I feel like I see him when I see him, but to take a time out and rest so I can see him, I would really like do something nice for him, but time isn't my friend right now. Any suggestions!?!?