My husband has always told me the only reason he dated his one serious girlfriend was because she showed interest in him.

Today I ran across old emails and pictures of and old girlfriend of his. He talked about how beautiful she was, and how much he loved her.

Some days I feel like he settled for me. Like I was the only one around so he picked me.

Don’t get me wrong I love this man he’s amazing, in every scene of the word.

And maybe this is me being immature or overly sensitive. But he never tells me I’m beautiful or how attracted he is to me.

We have sex maybe once a week if that and sometimes it feels like it’s a chore like he knows if he doesn’t then I’m going to bring it up and we are going to have to talk about.

I have no clue how to talk to him about this without it sounding like I’m blaming him.