Friends before pregnancy

So I was friends( idk if I am still considered hers or not) with a girl for about 10 years now. She got pregnant in high school and I helped out so much. We always talked about getting pregnant at the same time. Her and her husband were trying for 2 years before it finally happened for her. My husband and I didn’t start trying until the beginning of this year and it happened right away for us. I know she was kind of upset about that. But I can’t help that. We thought it would take longer and it didn’t. Anyway I always thought since we wanted to have babies at the same time that we would be closer. She never texts me and when I text her she only gives one word answers. My mom got really Ill recently and I texted her and told her I couldn’t come to a party she was having for her daughter. Again she gave a short reply and never asked about my mom since. My mom used to always watch her daughter too. Now I found out she is having a baby shower for her and I am kind of upset. I want to say something to her but I won’t. I guess I just wrote this to vent and also ask has anybody experienced this after getting pregnant this year?