Wont you feel concerned and suspicious?

My husband never stays in the living room with the kids and i, hes always in our room, touching his phone, 24/7. He used to stayed in the living rm, but not anymore. Wont you feel like somethings off if your partner just stays in the room, 24/7, touching their phones? Even when they eat, they bring it in the room to eat. Ive asked him and he said its because he doesnt want to listen to whatever the kids watching, cause its the same thing over and over. But one time when he was drunk, he told me he never stayed w us, because we all look so "retarded and boring". Hes alao very secretive w his phone.