What’s the gender? Advice!

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My husband doesn’t want to know the gender before FET but I kind of do- he thinks it will make it even harder if it were to miscarry. He said I could find out and just not tell him but that’s easier said than done.

What have you done or would recommend?

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Co

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How about a compromise? Don’t find out the sex until after you’ve had your betas and first ultrasound. We thought of doing that but turned out all our embryos are girls, so that plan went out the window. If you’re embryos have been PGS tested (which I’m assuming they haven’t been since you know the gender) the chance of miscarriage is very slim.

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Colleen • Sep 9, 2018
I understand why he would want to wait. But knowing now is a huge perk of IVF with PGS. Do you know any of the genders?

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Colleen • Sep 9, 2018
You’re welcome 😊 I understand why he would want

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R • Sep 9, 2018
Thanks for your advice! He just wants to wait until after first trimester when out of the danger miscarriage zone but I just want to know! It’s one of the few perks you get from doing IVF with PGD

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We initially didn't want to find out but our nurse told us we had 2 girls n 2 boys... so we decided to put back two n instead of choosing the sex we chose the number tht identified the embryos... Tht way we keep it a surprise n find out later