What are rude questions to ask?

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What are some rude questions to ask people? Ie rude to ask someone who is TTC, pregnant or already gave birth? 
I usually ask what’s on my mind but I know there are a lot of social faux pas. Can you share things you’ve been asked or topics that are taboo?

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If you don’t know someone well, just don’t ask about their fertility or family plans. Simple.

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One question that I always felt weird when asked was if I got stretch marks and if they were bad. Also, never liked tons of questions about why I chose not to breastfeed and if I knew all the benefits to breastfeeding.
I also think it’s tacky to ask someone whether their pregnancy was planned or not. 
But, who knows with these things? Everyone is different and some things might be more sensitive for some people than others🤷‍♀️

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I don’t ask anything because I hate people asking me questions lol I don’t like people in my business. Idk why this bugs me but when people who have never had kids say “I’m going natural, no meds,no epidural) this is normally after they’ve asked and I’ve told them about my water breaking at home, my 17 hour horrible  active labor and my epidural experience lol I’m like okay Susan more power to ya 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Don’t say a pregnant woman is big, small, glowing, anything. Don’t comment on her appearance, period. You don’t know how she’s feeling.
Preemptively, those who think you can always say “you look so great!”, it’s not fun to hear when you feel like absolute crap. So, just avoid appearance comments and say “ it’s so nice to see you!”

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I'm pregnant with my third and I hate when complete strangers think it's okay to ask me "Wow! Is this your last one?!" 
Or the so common "You definitely have your hands full!" Like no, I didn't realize two toddler boys and being 34 weeks pregnant is a handful ... 
I don't like to hear "I just want this baby out of me" when someone is like 30 weeks pregnant. I delivered my first premature and he spent time in the NICU and almost didn't survive. I've also been pregnant for a full 40 weeks before delivering and let me tell you, I'd give anything to stay pregnant. Having a NICU baby is beyond hard and something you'll only understand if you experience it. No, I'm not bitter I just wish people would understand what they're saying.

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Everyone is different, I couldn’t care less what someone asks me. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m just an open person though, and not ashamed of the things my body has been through with pregnancy and giving birth. Also I feel like not many people give it to them straight.. I know that nobody told me what labor was like and I wish I was warned. Lol. 
Obviously if someone comes up to you and asks are you pregnant or just getting fat.. that’s rude lol.  But there is always a nice way of asking questions.

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I've learned it's different for everyone. I had started a training class for a call center October last year, found out after Thanksgiving that one girl was pregnant, so I said congrats, well she looks at me and says I'm getting an abortion. She already had 2 kids, baby daddy in jail, at the time she didnt want another but she kept him. I felt so awkward though... if I dont know the person well enough I usually talk about trivial stuff and let them know if I'm prying too much they can feel free to stop me.

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Don't ask anything at all. If they want to talk about it they probably will.

What are rude questions to ask?

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