so my boyfriend and I (we are both about to graduate,him a year. me 2) were on the subject of what we wanted to do with our life after like college and military and school.

and of course we were both like "well if want to get married before having kids" which obviously brought up the question of when.

he told me that he was for sure that he wanted kids within the next. 1-2 years.

YEARS.

like i want kids but in like 5 years.

like what do you expect me to walk across graduation ready to pop?!

how do I talk to him about this?