so my man is supposed to be getting a job at the end of this month. they said he had to be a NY resident to get this job... we live in pa(which they knew) but today they told him we see you live in pa, but he said he only stays here on weekends (even though he does live here) but his mailing address is here. so now she said he needs to change his license back to ny and find some ny mail... any advice?????