Games

This guy I’ve been on and off talking to for about a year now keeps playing games with me. He’ll ask to hangout and the last minute cancel. He’s canceled 4 times this week. I don’t know if it’s because we haven’t had sex or what.. we don’t really talk about sex he thinks I don’t like it but I’ve told him I’m not having sex with him until we’re in a serious committed relationship. This whole scenario is WEIRD. I’m 19 and he’s 30.. while he’s very experienced in sex I’m not.. I mean i’ve only technically have had sex with one guy. While he’s a sex addict. I don’t know how to approach him and talk about things with him and ask where this is even going. Are we friends??? Or ??? HELP