So my husband and I have been together for around 5 years we have 2 kids together 3 years and 3 months. Tor some reason I never really tried a full make out session with tongue? I have done it before with a guy when i was in high scjool but we got caught by his parents and I haven't done it since. Is there any tips for it? Lol

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On around the same note my husband says that he will be willing to go down on me and do anal but when I was younger my step dad did that to me....is there any way to get past this? I want my husband to do it but I get flashbacks...