Ok. My husband and I are never seeing eye to eye. I am basically here to help with Bill's and for when he wants sex. Selfish sex anyhow. I am preparing to leave. But I just am so bitter at someone who I put so much effort and time into for things to come to this. Oh well. Live and learn. He has almost 30g in credit card debt. That he hid and lied about. At first I was angry he jilted me then I was trying to do the right thing by saying hey let's tackle this together. HORRIBLE mistake. Led to him thinking he could do anything to me and I'd still stay. Hell no. Treats me like dirt. He has told me numerous times that we dont have money for a therapist or to fix things around the house or help pay extra on my credit cards which I unfortunately had to use to pay for classes because we were scraping by. About 4-5 times this man has gone to the casino from hiding money from me. Saying he pulled money out for certain things. (Joint bank) This time, he told me no to counseling one week. The next he says he wants to go to the casino and is taking 200 bucks for his bday. That can be a bday gift from me this man didnt get me anything for my bday or anniversary this year. I am over this.