I’m Embarrassed.

Am I right or wrong?

My boyfriend lives with his family which can make personal things kind of awkward. He doesn’t “live at home” bc all of the family members pay rent. They are just choosing to live together.

For this reason...I am always scared to look like a hoe when I leave his room. We aren’t loud but I definitely look roughed up afterwards...like smeared makeup and hair tangled as hell.

So I told him that I don’t want to appear that way with his fam around. We are all adults here but I don’t want that embarrassment.

So the other day I wanted to just get some ice cream w him. He insisted I go to his house for a homemade dinner- sweet of him but also hella sneaky. Of course after dinner we start messing around.

My hair becomes a rats nest...half of my makeup is obviously gone and I realize have to face his family on the way out the door. I didn’t plan for this to happen- I just wanted ice cream.

I tell him how uncomfortable I felt and he just looked at me like it was MY problem.

Ashamed as hell I walked past his mom to grab my shoes and left as quietly as I could..

I felt gross. Why didn’t he try to help.. like get your mom out of the kitchen or something.

I left angrily and we haven’t spoken since.

He’s mad I got mad.

I’m mad he did nothing to help me not look Hoe-ish in front of his family.

Am I wrong? Advice?