Hey guys! I been with my OH for 2 1/2 years! He travels a lot and I have a hard time telling him I’m ready for a baby!

I want a baby but i need fertility help from hospital and stuff. However i can’t go through all that if he’s not ready. I don’t know how to tell him and what if he’s not ready?

How did you all find the right time? Or did you get your self “accidentally” pregnant. Which i can’t bear to do because I’ve grown up without a dad and it sucks so that is a no no!