my bf had lunch with another girl?

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My bf has lunch with another girl after one of their ROTC classes today. I’m kinda upset but do i have a right to be? Idk help me

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Why does that upset you?

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Maybe they are just friends or that they were hungry after ROTC. Dont cuase yourself undo stress

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Investigate.

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Did they eat lunch naked or something?? Assuming it was regular food and they ate it in a restaurant I really can’t imagine how that is a problem.

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It depends what kind of relationship u guys have. If it were me I would be upset and he would know that... So if he did it i would be mad that he went for lunch with another girl with him  KNOWING  how that makes me feel. If u never told him that you are uncomfortable with that then you can't really be mad at him. You know what I mean? If he loves you he will respect you and do what makes you comfortable. Everyone is different some people don't care about friends going out for lunch even if it's the opposite sex. So just let him know your thoughts.  
Hope this helps you! .

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absolutely. my boyfriend and i don’t even speak to the other sex no guys in my phone etc because we don’t feel the need to. every relationship is different!

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If he was not hiding it from you and he’s open about his female friends and you are allowed to meet them and be involved then you gotta have some trust, girlfriend. I have tons of best male friends that have been my ride or dies for years and years. My husband trusts me and is friends with all of them as well. In this day and age you just cannot expect your SO to not have friendships with the opposite sex.

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I mean, isn’t ROTC high school? Don’t all high schoolers eat with everyone else in their lunch period? I don’t understand the issue

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Is he not allow to have female friends? 
Ask him who is she if it upsets you. Unless he was holding her hand and making lovey dovey eyes at her, it's prob just an innocent lunch

my bf had lunch with another girl?

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