Should I have to ask every time for it??

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So my husband would be probably fine if we only had intercourse once a month. But I  need it everyday! He makes a big fuss if I pressure him about it. I have also voiced my concerns about only doing it once a month.

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Well marriage or not, relationship or not, you should never try to force someone else to have sex with you. If he’s not in the mood leave him alone and please yourself. My fiancé and I have only had sex maybe 4 times since February. He understands I’m not in the mood so he leaves me alone.

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You cant force him to have sex with you. Just because you are married or whatever does not mean he is there to satisfiy you whenever you so choose. Please yourself when he doesnt want too. Not every man wants sex everyday.

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Stop pressuring him for sex. Granted if this was a switch case, most people would be telling you to leave him.
If he's not in the mood then you need to respect that. Buy yourself a vibrator or dildo and fuck yourself with it if your sex drive is that high.

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I have the exact same problem and we used to not be like this. I know he’s stressed and all but I feel self conscious about it (even though it’s not even about me). And trying to have a baby like this just doesn’t work

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I’ve had similar issues!! You are not alone and sometimes it feels like I’m the only girl going through it because it’s usually the other way around! We’ve just talked about it a lot and sometimes it’s easier than others. I think communicating in an honest and respectful way has helped us work on improving consistency.

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Dont badger him, that's actually bullying. Yes, you can bully him even if he's your husband. No means no, girl. If its that big of a deal ask if he would be willing to get looked at, maybe there's some medication that could spike his drive.

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Its opposite for me. I dont mind having sex daily but he definitely has to initiate it most of the time because I dont NEED sex daily like he does. 
This our personal arrangement and if hes not willing to make the same Choice I made (to willingly without pressure or guilt have sex daily) then you need to deal with it in a way that respects him or simply find a man with a similar sex drive.

Should I have to ask every time for it??

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