My boyfriend and I are together for just about 2 years. We talked of moving out, having a kid, traveling etc. BUT, I do all the work and effort when it comes to actually doing it. We’re going away next month thanks to me finding a airline ticket, hotel, and car rental. I mean don’t get me wrong, he’s paying too. We talked about moving out. He lived with his ex before I doubt she did all the effort to move out and get their own place. I literally look up places and email at least once a week. When I tell him he doesn’t really react except “we could afford it” then he’ll change the subject to, “what are you doing?” every time! I know im not rushing him because he talks about having a kid all the time and I told him I want to live with him and he says it back but he never puts in effort. Please read these following messages as they’re only examples on how frustrating it is... It’s never “oh what about these?” or his ideas. Are all guys like this?! Please read these and let me know what y’all would do?!

Thoughts please...