My son had such a fit over where he was sitting for dinner. He wanted to sit in my chair to eat, but he is not able to reach his food well. So I left his food at his spot and put him in my lap and said see you are not able to reach. Oh he tried, but was not successful. So I told him if he wanted to reach his dinner he had to sit in his spot. So finally he agreed to get in his chair and immediately pushed his plate into my spot and reaches out for me to pick him back up.