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How do you keep yourself calm while trying to conceive? This was my first month trying and I know not everybody conceives on their first month trying and I’ve had that in the back in my head.. my period is a week late that being said I just decided to go to Walmart to get a test and I come home and AF has shown up 😒 anyways, I already want to break down and cry. I know it’s only been one month but I can’t help my feelings.

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You tell yourself that after a year of trying, that is when you you start worrying. I did get pregnant the first time around and I was not calm even then. I knew something was wrong when I started spotting at 5+5 but everyone told me that I was imagining things and calm down. I had a missed miscarriage. So...take it easy, not being calm might be the new way of life (worried about getting pregant, worried about 1st trimester, worried about birth, worried about baby, toddler, child, teenager, adult, grandchildren, school, money....). Just appriciate life and be sure that your baby will come when it is his or hers time.

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It can take a healthy couple up to a year to conceive . It’s not all that uncommon. It took me and my SO 13 months .  All I can say is to relax and know it will happen in good timing . I’ve found for me the more I stressed about it, the harder it was . I didn’t end up getting pregnant till I just stopped worrying about it so much and “stopped trying so hard “ per say... also if you aren’t taking ovulation tests, you could try that so you have a better idea of when your ovulating . That will give you the highest chance ..Good luck ✨😊

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I completely understand. Literally did the same exact thing. Ughh! But baby dust to you, and everyone else.
Its a natural thing to get upset about bur we can always keep trying 💕

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We are on month 9 of TTC. You have no idea how many times I’ve wanted to just give up on it all. But I know it will happen when it is supposed to. Keep your chin up. Baby dust to you! 😊

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