How do you feel about porn?

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I know this topic is hard to have a right answer cuz honestly is there a right answer? I went through my husband snap chat to see what he has who he follows and omg a lot of naked girls not just pretty girls posing but straight out pussy shots and ass shots.. like wtf I told him I felt disrespected I know he’s a man and will always look I get that trust me but it was a lot and I told him I feel like he desires other woman that I am not enough for him he reassured me it’s not like that and he doesn’t even care about them but why have so many then ? He stayed quiet . This is not enough reasons to leave him but this year so much more has happened worse then this and I think I’m ready to throw the towel I honestly love him so much and I know he loves me but I want him happy and I want someone who only wants me I may never find it now in my 30 s with 3 kids but I don’t want this heartache either I’d rather dedicate myself to my kids then and be alone then always feel this way of him not fully wanting me . Any suggestions please ladies I’m crying as i type this please no bashing thank you

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I dont care about regular porn. 
I do however care about snapchat, because of the potential to interact. That makes it completely different for me, and i wouldnt be okay with it.

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Use the search bar and you will find a plethora of posts about how people feel about porn. It's discussed every day, multiple times a day

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just because hes a man, doesnt mean he will always look at porn. my husband doesnt. many Christian or religious men dont. I think its sleazy and we dont do that in our relationship.

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My husband doesn’t watch porn and I don’t either there are guys who just want you go find one y watch porn when the real thing is in front of you y do people need porn?? I don’t want a man using my body to fulfill his fantasies of other women

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I'm kinda on both sides of the fence because I have bipolar, major depression/anxiety and i suffer from Temporal Lobe Epiplepsy from a stroke I had as a child. 
I watch porn, every night before I shower. Sometimes my SO and I watch it together, but I also get self conscious about it with him, because I cant do the things I used to do in the past because my arthritis has gotten so bad that I cant bend or use certain positions without pain. 
I feel like he desires other women over me. I feel worthless and gross sometimes. I wonder why he hasn't left me yet because my mental health is so (pardon language) fucked from some of my past relationships. I seriously feel ugly next to the girls in porn. I'm 27 years old and try my best to be nice to myself, but I always have the thoughts of not being pretty enough or good enough, no one will want me, I don't even want me. 
My SO on the other hand doesn't care whether or not I watch porn. He tries to reassure me that it's not that serious and he will always love me no matter what and pornos don't mean a thing. He tells me he can go without porn, but uses it to get off when my body just can't handle it. 
I feel your concern.

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I agree with other commenter. I couldnt care less about regular porn but snapchat you most likely know the person, you can easily talk to them and that wouldn't be ok with me. I wouldn't trust that it's "just looking" or that it will stay that way

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