Im a sahm, im the only one taking care of our kids, only one cooking, and cleaning. My husband never helps me. He acts like im so lazy, all i do is sit my ass, i get it so good. This makes me dont want to do anything anymore, besides taking care of the kids. I feel like i should just let their be dishes, let him find his own food, let him eat microwave food, let the laundry basket get full, and the carpet full of stains and little crumbs. Let the bed be dirty. Hes so ungrateful that i just dont have the motivation to tidy up anymore. Should i do this?