Too Fat

Okay so I’m 15 and I’m 230 pounds. I’ve always wanted a boyfriend and no guys like me. I’m actually a cheerleader at my school and I need to lose more weight. I’m pretty tall so it evens out a little bit. It just sucks because all my class mates are out losing their virginity while I sit at home watching Netflix. I really want to have sex but I need to lose weight before it actually happens. Advice? Please help!