Deinking Bf does not get we are expecting! What to do?

Question

I am so sad words cannot explain.
My bf loves to drink and when he does he becomes this crazy person and starts to throw food ice papers trash you name it to his friends.
I can't understand how he is not able to change a bit now that we are expecting. I am almost 12 weeks and today we had the second biggest ever.
He just does not care a bit about me or how i feel and goes on with his monkey behavior. Not only embarrasing but he always gets me in the mix and i always end up wet with food all over me or he pushes me with his roughhousing games between his friends.
I really feel i just want to leave and go to my parents until he grows a pair and stop his childish behavior
Sad part he is almost 40 
Even worst part he only hangs out with single 10-year younger people
Horrible part i think he has a drinking problem but he says he does not 
His friends find it funny and encourage/instigate him

Answer

I definitely think it might be positive for you to head to your parents for a while. Maybe the thought of losing you will help him get his head in the right place (or you will really see how much he cares about your relationship/child). I'm thankful that my husband put a lot of his hard partying ways behind him when we had our son, it's just not the best environment to have a child around. A couple drinks is fine but rough housing and drunkeness is never appropriate around a child (or around a pregnant lady!!) he especially doesn't need to be shoving you later in pregnancy when the baby isn't as protected and could be harmed. I say take a breather and hope he wises up. Also you could try out some couples therapy, rehab, AA meetings, etc. of course any of those options would mean him realizing he has an issue. Good luck I hope everything works out for the best and he realizes what a special time this is. It seems hard for some men to grow up

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You need to distance your self asap before he hurts you or the baby with this drunken bs seriously if you can go to your parents and try to talk to him when hes sober and let him know how you feel tell him your not coming back until he changes his ways sorry but i have zero tolerance for stuff like this especially at this age ridiculous and im not saying just wash your hands and be done if he does have a problem and he wants to change and get help be there for him but if he doesn't prepared to do this solo because that not a good environment for your baby and definitely not cool to grow up around gl

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He sounds like a jerk!! Way too immature to be having a baby, you need to get away for your safety and for the baby!

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Move back with your parents. He is no good for the baby or your wellbeing.

Deinking Bf does not get we are expecting! What to do?

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