So my husband has made the decision to go National Guard and is in the process of getting things to the recruiter to head to meps. We were given the estimate of him going to boot camp in January due to him already being enrolled in college this semester. We have a daughter who is about to turn 2 and it was hard enough knowing I will be on my own with her for 4 months when she is a little daddy's girl but this morning I also found out that I am pregnant. Time frame wise (if correct) he will miss the birth of our 2nd child. I know military families go through this all of the time but I'm looking for someone who I will be able to talk to about it.