Marriage or baby carriage?

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The boyfriend asked me to marry him yesterday, and he's amazing so of course I said yes!
We've been TTC for 7 months now, and we both want a baby sooo bad. But we both want a wedding, not just go to the court house. Not saying a wedding makes a marriage, but we both did the court house thing on our first marriage, so we don't want to do that this time. Anyhow...
So now I don't know what to do. I really would like to get married next summer, but I really don't want to be big huge pregnant walking down the aisle...
I need advice!

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You can aways wait on trying for a baby until your wedding night. Or you can wait until April or May to start trying that way your not ready to pop at your wedding.

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There is NOTHING wrong with being pregnant at your wedding. Of course you won't really be able to drink or party but nothing wrong with it. Or you could wait until you have a baby

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Plan your wedding and put ttc on hold until like 4 months before your wedding... That way your not showing at your wedding!

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Decide which one you want first or which one is more time specific. If you're set on next summer for a wedding, delay TTC until after. If you're more anxious to get pregnany, put the wedding planning off until you've given birth.

We paused TTC for our wedding. In my opinion, it's easier to plan a wedding without having a baby in arms.

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Wait! We did (even though we're old lol) and I didn't regret it at all. Our wedding was beautiful and we got pregnant as soon as we started trying. Our families were super happy for us and it just felt right.

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From experience I would advise you to hold off on having a baby. I was once in the exact same predicament and we chose to have a baby. Don't get me wrong, we love our daughter more than anything but now years down the road we are both so regretful that we didn't have the wedding of our dreams.

Our plan was to have our daughter and then start planning a wedding but as you know, babies are expensive and we have just never had the funds. So we ended up doing the courthouse thing and that perfect dress I had picked out is still hanging in my dad's closet.

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You could always carry on Ttc and then have your wedding later,

We got engaged Oct 2014 set our wedding for 6 May 2017, I'm 14w4d pregnant problem solved ;)

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If your not pregnant yet there's nothing wrong with putting TTC on hold have your wedding be happy then start again

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Why not wait and put TTC on hold for a bit? I can not imagine being pregnant and trying to plan a wedding. Too much stress.

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We paused the ttc and planned a wedding in 3 months. Then continued on with ttc! I'm currently 8w1d with our rainbow baby. Good luck to you!