Unwanted Advice

Why do people feel the need to continue to suggest that you should “have an abortion” or “this is not the right time” or “I’m a mother trust me I know this is hard you don’t want this” EVEN AFTER YOU HAVE ANNOUNCED THAT YOU ARE KEEPING THIS BABY AND AN ABORTION IS OFF THE TABLE... like I get that people want to give their two cents when the decision is still up in the air.. but if the mother herself has said “I am keeping this baby” shouldn’t that suggest to people to take their abortion talk somewhere else because it ain’t useful around here... all it does is make that new scared mother feel completely unsupported. Is it just me??? Am I crazy? Or has anyone else gone through this too?