What's the longest you and your SO have gone without sex?

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The reason i post this here instead of any of the other groups is because pregnancy affects our sex life in a weird way. (Or can) I want sex but right now my SO is being real weird about it. Not sure if its my growing belly or if he's just overtired from working. Its been going on 3 weeks now im pretty sure. I just start worrying and feeling insecure. We used to have a lot of sex so having this heavy decrease makes me nervous! I just wanna feel pretty again. 😏

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When I was sick we went weeks without and after birth everyone is supposed to go 6 weeks without (I know everyone doesn't though).

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6 weeks after birth both times

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4 months after tearing with our first baby. But other than that its probably a week

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Is this his first baby ? If so, he may be weirded out by the thought of the baby. Or he could be worried he'd harm the baby during sex. When I hit 37weeks my SO didnt want to have sex because he didnt want to crush my belly.

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I was so sick my first trimester we didn’t do it for almost 3 months.

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During my first trimester I was so sick that I was hospitalized so we went a few weeks at a time without sex because of how sick I felt. I stayed nauseous and vomited my whole pregnancy until birth, but once I sucked it up we had sex a lot. During the third trimester, he was worried to put me into labor early so we didn’t have sex as often, and now that I’m still healing from birth we haven’t had sex in over a month. It’s killing us lol but we would rather be safe and wait until I get the okay from my doctor before we do anything.

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My boyfriend works out of town a lot so it isnt in common for us to go awhile... Also I wasn't on BC after my second child and we didnt want to hVe any accidents so we decided to not do anything for awhile. Worked for awhile too but I am now 28 weeks pregnant because he was going away for work for a few months and we wanted to have a proper goodbye. 
He has had a hard time having sex at times while I was pregnant but I u derstood cuz sometimes it is a big shock for them.

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Hubby has kidney stones so no sex and before that we couldn’t as I was high risk so going on 3 months and we use to be intimate daily

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Pregnancy has completely diminished my sex drive. My husband and I were having sex at least once a week for like, the first half. I felt bad so I made sure I would at least once a week. Since then, it’s become uncomfortable and even painful, so I can’t even will myself to do it. In the last 2 months we’ve had sex twice. I’m trying though! I really am! 😩

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I'm not pregnant but he's currently on the other side of the states. He was supposed to be home once a month but that's now not what's happening due to stupid work stuff. So almost 2 months now 😭 we're trying to get pregnant and it's kinda hard when he's not here. Only positive is that I'm flying out there and we're driving cross country home.

What's the longest you and your SO have gone without sex?

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