In 2011 I became a single mother to a now 7 year old. Amazing kid and I love him so much.

Last year I finally opened my heart to what I thought was an amazing man.. he has just gotten out of a long long relationship prior to us dating.. I believe it was overwhelming for him. He needed to take some time alone.. and he’s been doing so. I found out I’m pregnant this week.. I told him. No doubt in my mind he will be a great and supportive father. The issue is that as of now, we aren’t together and don’t plan on it unless somehow there are new sparks through this life changing process.. bc of how he chose to end the relationship, I don’t care to be with him right now either. But I feel like I owe it to my future child to say we at least tried.

Is continuing this pregnancy a bad idea? Abortion is too heavy on my heart to think about. But having to do what’s right for everyone involved is necessary.. to become a single parent again with another mans child breaks my heart.. I wouldn’t be completely single this time but what child doesn’t deserve a family unit. Its sad when you think you’ve found a good catch.. then life throws you a curve ball..

Anyone go though similar things? Or any advice?