Okay so , I don’t even know where to begin .

I have a one year old with my longtime bf of 6 years . Things are not okay anymore and I need out . For the sake of me and my daughter . He screams , calls me names , grabs me , ect . Threatens to leave me if I say anything to him about ANYTHING . He doesn’t help with our daughter at all . He smokes weed and plays video games and goes to work . That’s it . I know he works and I’m a stay at home mom and I am so grateful for that but he literally won’t even hold her so I can make her a bottle . He has never been alone with our daughter . If I need someone to watch her , he makes me get a babysitter (my grandma ) . I want to split up . But I’m soo scared about visitation . He doesn’t feed her or know anything about taking care of her . His parents and most of his family are bad druggies who even sell pills and stuff out of their home and I know that’s where he will go live . I don’t want my child around them . Please , tell me what to do . My daughter is my life and I’m just not comfortably leaving her alone with him or anyone in his family . Help .

Also , please no rude comments .