Boyfriend has zero sex drive. Is it me?

We have been fighting about this so much lately. I don't feel like he wants me as much as I want him. I want to be touched and held. Wanted. He says he values an emotional connection more than physical but damnit, he's a 22 year old guy. I have a high sex drive.  I get turned down 95% of the time by him. It's like it's only okay to have sex when he wants it and I should just stay quiet and accept it only when he says so. Two people who love each other and are in the honeymoon stage should be having trouble keeping their hands off each other. He won't let me tease him and doesn't do anything in return. I just feel ignored and I'm becoming bitter about it. Like if he was as in love with me as he says he is then he would be more attracted to me. Is it me?